The scriptures tell us there must be opposition in all things, for without it we could not discern the sweet from the bitter. Would the marathon runner feel the triumph of finishing the race had she not felt the pain of the hours of pushing against her limits?
President Uchtdorf

Thursday, November 3, 2011

One Last Memory


I wanted to share one last marathon memory.  I created this blog in hopes of turning it into a book. A book so my posterity, aka my great nieces and nephews, will know what Auntie Teri was like.  This post is for them.  I also know why it has taken 5 weeks to write it.  
My marathon was on Saturday, October 1, 2011 in St. George.  After the race, mom and I drove to Oceanside, California, to stay at the beach house for a couple weeks.  We got there around 10pm.  I could barely walk, of course. The first thing my sweet dear Grandma Roz did was to push her walker towards me and offer to let me use it.  It’s the kind on wheels and she had a flower tied to the handle bars. 
She was 94 years old and still as spunky as anything.
The next day I didn’t do much but rest. I will treasure the time I took that day to spend time with my grandma.  She sat on the couch to read, and like a little girl, I laid next to her to rest.  We laughed and joked each time one of us had to get up off the couch, since both of us had to put forth a lot of effort to do so.  She said I was taking as long as she usually does. 
That evening my grandma stood and watched her last sunset over the ocean.  It was one of her most favorite things in the whole world.  


Later that night she took a fall, which she did not recover from. She was in the hospital for a week before passing away.  It was a difficult week to watch my grandma suffer.  Afterwards, I felt so much peace knowing about our Heavenly Father’s plan for families.  I felt so much peace because I have been working on the family history for my grandma’s side. I know that those family members were very close those final days.  I felt peace because my grandma was an amazing woman who led a very full life, with no regrets, up until those final days. 
I am so fortunate that I had the privilege of being able to spend one-on-one time with her right before the fall. I was also able to interview a month before as an example for my 3rd graders who were interviewing one of their grandparents. Those are memories that I will cherish my whole life. They are precious memories that I will remember as part of my first marathon.  

1 comment:

katie said...

your grandma was a spunky little thing. she was hilarious. I so know about treasured time with grandmas. i was able to have some one on one with mine before she passed, since she was up in utah. i will always cherish that time. i am so happy that you were able to have that memory with her. your great theresa. so is your awesome family. :)